I'll admit it, I'm a bit of a goth girl. I liked nirvana & NIN growing up, read the Sandman comic series when it was new, and have worked for a comic store just so I could get access to my favorite comic book villains. So my tastes in kimono themes reflect that, the problem I face is that women's kimono rarely feature gothic themes.
So, one of the things I am considering is wearing mens sets to get access to my favorite kimono themes.
Here are some of my favorites: skulls, tombs, spiders, demons, spider webs, bats, owls, the moon, snow, waves, and goldfish.
There are many men's sets that feature these themes, but very few women's.